Sunday, March 25, 2018

Feeling Overwhelmed Can Be A Good Sign


This week I was so overwhelmed.  In Cantonese we have a phrase . . . we say "I'm feeling buhngaausih."  This week I totally buhn gaau sih'ed my life away. Let me tell you my story.

We had an incredible district/zone meeting. Sister Chan & I are the only Sisters in our zone of about 14 Elders, so we pretty much anything we say goes. (: In our meeting I was asked to teach.  I had been thinking about pride and how we often forget that we are simply instruments for the Lord.  I thought about how everything is given to us from the Lord.  We need to be careful not to think WE are doing the work as missionaries.  What instrument has ever taken credit for the beautiful music or art it produces?  NONE.  The artist takes credit and our true artist is the Lord.  I then shared my thoughts about how the Lord needs competent and fine tuned instruments, so we are needed in this work, but we need to work together in unity and remember who the true artist is.  I know Heavenly Father loves us and needs us.  If we listen to the Spirit, He will guide us individually.  Sometimes I feel that He is more willing to help us than we are willing to be helped!

As missionaries we REALLY want His help, but sometimes we ignore or make excuses to not listen to Him.  As a zone, we all decided to humble ourselves and then we talked about our goals.  We decided to be out working hard and looking for people to talk to from 9am-9pm each day. We also committed to only say prayers of gratitude and we set a goal to get a certain number of investigators.  Ready for the results . . .

Tuesday - we went to find a LA's (less active’s) apartment and when we finally got to the building, we pressed the button for the 10th floor.  Some people got off at the 5th then the 9th. When the 9th floor door closed, the elevator went back down to ground floor!  We pushed it 5 times and it finally went back up, got to the 9th floor and shut down. We were so confused, so we hesitantly pushed it and went to the 10th floor.  The second we walked out, something was not right. We said a prayer, opened the Book of Mormon and came across a scripture that said, "In dangerous circumstances" We knew we needed to leave ASAP!  We left some banana bread the door and a note and took off.   On the way out we ran into a girl named Andrea who recognized us from McDonalds. We told her about the love God has for her and invited her to learn more.  She said yes and we got her number. Then after that we needed to get back to our apartment quickly.  We got walking and saw a bus stop that had a bus that goes straight to our apartment. We flagged down the bus driver, but he 100% ignored us and drove right passed us!! RUDE!   There was a reason though . . .Sister Chan turned around and started walking and said, "Maybe there's someone God wants us to meet!"  Off we went, still a 30 min walk from home. Pretty soon we saw a boy and his shirt said Wesley.  I started saying his name and making weird pronunciations out of it until he turned around with a cute little smile on his face. This kid is the definition of prepared. We walked home with him and shared the restoration, said a prayer with him, and invited him to meet with us the next day and pray that night.

Wednesday- Met Kitty!  We had been out all afternoon, and we were finally walking back to the house. We stopped to buy some chocolate milk because it sounded good, and on the way out we saw Kitty and ran right over to her. She gave us her number and said she was willing to meet to learn more. Then a lady on the bus that afternoon leaned over and asked if we could exchange numbers. What!? Never happens.

Thursday - taught a LOT of lessons, and had dinner with an amazing family.  We also met Paul on the bus.  He told us he is having troubles getting over feelings of revenge that he has towards his father, and he knows that it was not a coincidence that we met and asked for his number.  Then he told us he knows we can help him and he wants our help. We also met Bob in KFC and taught him the restoration, and he wanted to learn more!!  You'll see a picture of him below.  He SERIOUSLY looks just the KFC Colonel!

Friday- Ella.  We met Ella. She is 19 and also was ready to hear the gospel.  We found Ella and her friend, Rita, on the street just standing on some stairs. The Spirit prompted us to talk with them. We first talked about how acquainted they are with the Spirit. Ella and Rita both have felt it and they described it as a feeling of peace that will sometimes lead them to tears for no reason. So we took advantage of the peaceful feeling right then and there and shared the restoration with them. They were astounded. They wanted to meet again and scheduled us for the next day.   They promised to pray that night.  Then that night we got 4 different referrals! FOUR!! God PROVIDES!!!

Saturday and Sunday... my buh gaau sih or overwhelment . . . EVERTHING FELL THROUGH!  Wesley, Kitty, Rita, Reno, Ku, Kenneth, Paul, Bob . . . GONE! They all cancelled.  Some blocked our numbers and we were left empty handed. Everything we had in our hands was taken in one day! God gave gave gave gave and then in one second, the people exercised agency and boom! GONE! I didn’t understand! I think it was the first time in my life I knelt in prayer and cried to God with pain and doubt and complete confusion! Why why why why!!!??? I didn’t get it! I felt so overwhelmed that all the potential just slipped right out of our hands!! For a split second I blamed God. My comp had the idea to open up to the conference talk "Walk With Me" from May 2017. This talk will explain the weight I felt on my shoulders and the answer to my prayer, so read that when you finish reading my email. It’s by Elder Eyring.  It goes hand in hand with my email today. Everything has a purpose. Everything has a place and time, and I think God tested me to the brink.  It was really overwhelming . . .  

I love being a missionary, as hard as it is sometimes. But God has a purpose for everything under the heavens, so stay strong.  Trust in God’s will.  He loves us and is more willing to bless us than we are to receive his blessings!! Let heaven open up and pour blessings upon you, and when they close, keep saying prayers of gratitude for what you have! Love you all!!

Love, Sister Webb

My MTC group!!


Love my comp!


Dinner with the Bishop

Teaching the youth to dance

Beautiful HK







Time for a haircut . . . 


Pretty good eh?

Our friend, Stanley 


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